Intercessory Prayer Guide
THIS GUIDE is designed to be used for training individuals who are interested in the ministry of praying for other people. One of the fast-growing ministries in the church is that of trained prayer teams who avail themselves to pray for others. If you are considering such a ministry, this guide may provide some helpful suggestions for your training sessions.
"First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for everyone..." 1 Timothy 2:1
"Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. Do not quench the Spirit." 1 Thessalonians 5:16-19.
- All that is shared with you is to be kept strictly confidential.
- Prepare your mind and heart. Seek to humble yourself and open your heart to the Holy Spirit.
- Ask those you are going to intercede for, "What would you like me to pray for?" If you need further clarity, ask, "How would you like me to pray about this...?"
- It is important to engage the will and to create openness as we prepare to minister in prayer with them. This is especially critical if you are praying for youth or children who may have been compelled to seek prayer. We are partners together with the Holy Spirit – it is God who works, not us.
- Ask if it is alright to join hands as you pray. This allows you the ability to make both physical and spiritual connection.
- When it is time to pray with an individual or couple, take a couple of deep breaths and pray (silently or aloud) as you breathe in, "Come, Holy Spirit.
- Take time to listen for God’s leading. What is God bringing to mind as you open yourself for God to speak? (Jn 5:30; 1 Sam 3:10) We must fight the tendency to fall into a pattern or style that closes our heart to God – as Moses did in getting water from a rock (Ex 17:1-6//Num 20:7-12). God still speaks (Jn 16:12-15).
As you begin to pray, thank God for the person you are praying for; pray for the specific request(s); and finally, ask God to bless the person you are praying with.
- Keep in mind that no matter what the request, we are God’s instruments of prayer. (However, if you are asked to pray with a person of the opposite sex and the request makes you uncomfortable, excuse yourself and look for another person to join you in the circle of prayer). We are not to judge the request but simply pray. Jesus modeled a heart of compassion (Latin: com = together; passe = suffer) when he ministered to others.
- When praying, speak near the ear of the individual but soft enough to keep it private.
- Remember, there is no "right" way to pray. Simply open your heart to God and the individual for whom you are praying. Close the prayer "in Jesus’ name."
- Breath mints are helpful, especially when you are nervous.
- Having several boxes of tissues available may prove helpful.
- If your church has a prayer chapel, welcome guests and gently ask if they want you to pray with them. Allow people the space to pray alone.
- Finally, it’s best to have men pray with men and women pray with women, if a person desires prayer.